The "4" words your man doesn't want to hear....
Ok, when I posted this earlier today there were many responses on 5 different sites that I write for. Some were not good. But surprisingly after I explained it the response was better...So here we go:
Well when it's said, "We need to talk" to us men. We get on the defense. Yes, the defense. Not just the defense of how to defend ourselves. But also on how TO PREPARE OURSELVES FOR WHAT SHE'S GOING TO SAY NEXT!!! Because most women use this as an attack and go way beyond the point and of course the situation never gets solved and leaving the man feeling attacked and the woman misunderstood. Hence laying the foundation for an argument. You see when men talk we have a beginning of a conversation and an end. There's no middle, no, well how did it make u feel, no, no, no... In our minds we look at it as, "ok she wants to talk so what did I do wrong or right?" And how can I fix it??? What the great part is that's usually missed, is that he cares enough to fix it. Look, in any conversation there has to be a form of dialogue in order to get your point across. No matter whom it is. With your man it's best to work your concerns into a regular convo that way he's at ease and is able to receive what your saying without feeling pressured or attacked. And ladies, when you are able to get him to actually listen by doing this. Stay on the DAMN POINT!!! GET TO THE DAMN POINT!!!DONT USE THIS AS THE END ALL OPPURTUNITY TO HIT HIM WITH EVERYTHING YOU SEE THAT'S WRONG WITH THE RELATIONSHIP!!! Because tomorrow's got its own brand new "We've got to talk"....
Tomorrow we confront the issue of: Why he won’t get hitched?
Well when it's said, "We need to talk" to us men. We get on the defense. Yes, the defense. Not just the defense of how to defend ourselves. But also on how TO PREPARE OURSELVES FOR WHAT SHE'S GOING TO SAY NEXT!!! Because most women use this as an attack and go way beyond the point and of course the situation never gets solved and leaving the man feeling attacked and the woman misunderstood. Hence laying the foundation for an argument. You see when men talk we have a beginning of a conversation and an end. There's no middle, no, well how did it make u feel, no, no, no... In our minds we look at it as, "ok she wants to talk so what did I do wrong or right?" And how can I fix it??? What the great part is that's usually missed, is that he cares enough to fix it. Look, in any conversation there has to be a form of dialogue in order to get your point across. No matter whom it is. With your man it's best to work your concerns into a regular convo that way he's at ease and is able to receive what your saying without feeling pressured or attacked. And ladies, when you are able to get him to actually listen by doing this. Stay on the DAMN POINT!!! GET TO THE DAMN POINT!!!DONT USE THIS AS THE END ALL OPPURTUNITY TO HIT HIM WITH EVERYTHING YOU SEE THAT'S WRONG WITH THE RELATIONSHIP!!! Because tomorrow's got its own brand new "We've got to talk"....
Tomorrow we confront the issue of: Why he won’t get hitched?
